Sex Ed Repeal? Wisconsin Republicans Look to Overhaul Healthy Youth Law
State Sen. Mary Lazich, R-Muskego, and state Republicans hope to eliminate a state requirement that schools teach about birth control along with abstinence, or notify parents that they're not doing so.
Sex education for high school students is back in the news as Wisconsin legislators push to repeal state requirements on teaching about birth control.
State Sen. Mary Lazich, R-Muskego, and other Republican leaders want to undo a law passed in 2010 that requires Wisconsin high schools to teach about abstinence birth control, or notify parents they are not offering sex education.
On Friday, Republicans used Gov. Scott Walker's special legislative session on jobs to work on repealing the Healthy Youth Law passed in 2010. The repeal (Senate Bill 237) passed on a 4-3 party-line vote.
Lazich said the proposal was about returning control over sex education to school districts. But she also noted the Republican proposal would require schools to teach abstinence. She wrote in the Wisconsin State Journal:
While the Strong Communities/Healthy Kids Act removes some curriculum mandates, some requirements remain. Abstinence is the only 100 percent effective method to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STD). While the Strong Communities/Healthy Kids Act does not require abstinence-only education, it does require adolescents be informed that abstinence is the only reliable method to prevent pregnancy and STDs.
Planned Parenthood calls Republican efforts a "costly attack" on teen pregnancy prevention programs. The advocacy group said teen moms are 9 times more likely to live in poverty and their children are more likely to have lower cognitive development and to end up incarcerated.
For Representative Cory Mason (D-Racine), he wants kids to have comprehensive, age-appropriate information, but he also doesn't think this is the time for Madison to address sex-ed when there are more pressing issues.
"I have two daughters, and when the time comes for them to participate in a sex-ed class, I want to know that the information given to them is complete so they can make decisions that will keep them safe and healthy," he said. "Before the Healthy Youth Law even gets a chance to work, we're tearing it down and turning our attention to yet another bill that does nothing to help create jobs in our state."
Sarah Finger, of the Wisconsin Alliance for Women's Health, said the Healthy Youth Law creates a minimum requirement for schools to follow. In a Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel editorial, she said teen births cost state taxpayers $158 million per year. She writes:
Continuing teen pregnancy prevention programs is not just common sense; it is an economic and moral imperative that demands lawmakers' attention.
The Sheboygan Press and Marquette Tribune came out against repealing the current law.
More from the web
- http://www.wrn.com Healthy Youth Law Author Defends Program
- Uncommon Causey Does Abstinence Based Sex Education Work?
- Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel Bill Would Allow the Return of Abstinence-Only Sex Education
Dustin Block
11:30 am on Saturday, October 29, 2011
Should we use everything possible to prevent teen pregnancies? And what does this have to do with jobs?
Bren
5:54 pm on Sunday, December 11, 2011
This is clearly a bone thrown to the religious extremists for delivering votes to Scott Walker. Hormones and immature frontal lobes lead to risky behavior in teens. Taking an intellectual and/or moral approach will not work with every teen, a multi-tiered approach will be more effective.
It sure seems that Scott Walker's "Jobs" platform was a subterfuge, a false front hiding the Koch Brothers' true radical political agenda. Recall Scott Walker and get someone in the Governor's seat who will produce, not hemorrhage, jobs in Wisconsin!
Brian Dey
9:03 pm on Monday, December 12, 2011
Bren- Really? Isn't teaching children sex education the responsibility of the parents? We've tried, as a society, to make our schools take on the responsibilities from everything to providing meals, to teaching our children political values on sex. That is not public educations job. We are not equipped to teach morals, and sexual activity is a moral value. What we need to do is teach parents responsibility and not abdicate it to the government.
Keith Schmitz
2:58 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Yeah, except parents haven't picked up on that responsibility. Abstinence is another one of those conservative chestnuts that sounds good on paper but fails in practice.
Bob McBride
3:25 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Actually, Keith, when practiced it's 100% effective.
But it really is too much to expect that anyone would take it seriously in this day and age. Single motherhood is celebrated, being a promiscuous male is considered part of the culture. People who elect to not have sex 'til they're married are considered freaks of nature or religious nuts.
Nothing is shameful anymore (except perhaps thinking it might be good if a few things still were) and the only thing that ever made abstinence a realistic option was when there was actually some shame attached to getting knocked up while still single.
greg
7:48 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Yea, all the jobs at Planned Parenthood helping kids get rid of there kids
Roger
1:38 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
What kind of idiots are this Lazich and "other Republican leaders?" Many teens are going to have sex no matter what you try and teach them. These "leaders" who don't want them taught about birth control are the same ones who think abortion should be banned. Never mind the fact that use of birth control would prevent most of the unwanted pregnancies that result in abortion anyway! Please vote these idiots out of office; they are apparently blinded by idealogy and incapable of independent thought.
Syte
8:17 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
Roger-
Calling people idiots does not make YOU come across as someone who is capable of independent thought.
If you want to be walked through the "medically correct" and scientific reasons why abstinence is favored both by the Center for Disease Control and by the vast majority of American parents and teens, read the article at http://sytereitz.com/2011/10/wisconsin-sex-ed-there%e2%80%99s-an-elephant-in-the-room/ .
Heather Asiyanbi
8:22 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
@Syte - abstinence is favored by everyone, but if it were being practiced as much as it is favored, I think it's logical to believe teen pregnancy and STD rates would not be as high as they are. Thus, while abstinence is the very best, 100% route to go, it's not the reality. Until it is, we need to arm our kids with knowledge, not pretend they aren't doing one thing and saying another.
Keith Schmitz
3:02 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
The Heritage Foundation of course to mollify their conservative minions is all for abstinence, but even they recognize it isn't working -- http://blog.heritage.org/2011/01/07/study-on-youth-abstinence-and-stds-the-bigger-picture/ -- though by God, they wish it would.
Jay
3:34 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
I think we need to teach all forms of birth control. Fact of the matter is that teens may do it any way. You can't "fear" a teen into not having sex. That is why every adult always talks about how "invincible" teens think they are. They think "it won't happen to me" So besides Abstinence we need to have other options. If your a Conservative look at it this way. The more you help prevent teen pregnancy the better off your tax situation and country will be.
Jay
3:35 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
Because we know its the money that matters and not really the people.
Heather Asiyanbi
6:45 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
If the goal is to reduce the number of teen pregnancies and the number of teens exposed to and coming down with STDs, then why not arm students with ALL the knowledge and not just some of it? Sure, abstinence absolutely is the only 100% effective way to go, but teens have sex. And they're not always smart about it. At least, by providing complete, age-appropriate information that is also laced liberally with common sense and practicality, teens are armed with knowledge.
Let's remember that the fewer teen pregnancies, the fewer babies born to mothers (parents?) who are ill-equipped to care for them and/or the fewer abortions get performed. That is the goal, right?
Jay
8:22 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
agreed heather, and the schools are usually pretty good about keeping the parent up to date about what will be taught and the Parents can opt out as well. So why do we need to waste money and time changing a law that works? And if your against it you can opt your child out, it makes no sense to me.
Heather Asiyanbi
8:38 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
@Jay - good point about parental notification. Every time one of our kids was in Health, we had to sign a note acknowledging our understanding of what would be taught and giving permission.
Say What?
8:45 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
I have to be with Jay and Heather on this one. First thing, I dont know of a public school that is not teaching abstinence as the first option to avoid pregnancy. Second, for the ideologically right, welfare and abortions are major concerns. But so is NFP for some reason (well, in their defense, it is their religious beliefs and it clearly says in the constitution, a document that they hold on level with the bible, church and state should join together to force beliefs on others). If you are right wing and had to choose compromise (I know, I know) by selecting 2 out of 3 items, I think giving up on teaching that abstinence is the only way might be an easy choice. All methods= less possibility of pregnancy.
Billu
9:19 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
I sure hope Scott Walker does not ever run for president because my guess is he would win then Wisconsin would loose him.
Man I love Scott Walker,
Say What?
9:35 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
Well, I wouldnt have to guess to tell you that if he were to become president that he would no longer be governor. I will let you think about that one for a while.
Jrock
12:24 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
Given Scooter McPuppeye's penchant for thinking outside of the box, I'm sure he could be find a way to bully Congress in to allowing him to be President AND Governor of Wisconsin at the same time...Governor of every state, and President, like a King!!
M.S.
9:01 pm on Tuesday, November 1, 2011
The topic is the end of a law, not Scooters political future. One depressing topic at a time please.
Lyle Ruble
7:56 am on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
@Brian Dey...Your logic is, that because religion is prohibited by the constitution and constitutional interpretation by the courts it is a policy of legal discrimination by our legally formed government. Sex education is designed to educate our youth to factual knowledge, not moral knowledge. Morality and ethics is the domain of the family, religious institutions and the community at large. The legislation advocated by Senator Mary Lazich is just another case of social conservatives legislating their particular brand of morality. It joins the other dysfunctional statutes on the state's code such as treating all sexual conduct before the age of 18 as acts of criminal behavior. Brilliant, just brilliant.
Brian Dey
8:33 am on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Lyle- Religion is not, has not, or never been prohibited by the Constitution.
the government is prohibited from "establishing religion." There is a huge difference. I'm pretty sure that allowing a prayer meeting of Christians, Muslims, Jews, etc... is not "establishing religion." The only one that interprets it that way is the far left. And you argue that teaching abstinence sise by side with other forms of birth control is somehow just a rightwing moral cause, but abstaining is the only known 100% form of birth control and th only known 100% prevention method of sexually transmitted disease. So if our legislation requires sex education, why is it so offensive to the far left that abstinence is required in the lesson plan. Is the far left incapable of abstaining from sexual activity? I guess I don't get it, but then again, the far left agenda has always been about living freely, unless you are a Christian.
Lyle Ruble
9:03 am on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
@Brian Dey....What you say is true concerning prohibition of religion by the constitution and only addresses establishment as being unconstitutional. However, over the course of a little over two hundred years, the establishment clause has been further defined prohibiting such things as school prayer, etc, etc. This is not a right or left issue, but an interpretation by the US Supreme Court. Can that interpretation change, of course it can; but for now it is the law.
I don't object to teaching abstinence only in public school sex education classes. However, the issue is teaching of abstinence in leiu of teaching fact based sex education, as designed by Planned Parenthood. The social conservatives in the state have attacked Planned Parenthood and is attempting to use the political process to shut them down. That is, in fact, an attack on women's health for many of the poor and disadvantaged who primarily use the services.
Craig
10:17 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
Currently they are teaching the anything goes agenda. Bi/gay/alternative acts, etc.
How has that been working for you?
We have taken God out of the schools, taught kids they are decendants of apes.....and then wonder why they act like animals.
Jrock
12:32 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
What are you talking about? God doesn't belong in schools, the same way it doesn't belong in politics, business, or culture. How lazy are you people, teach your own kids about whatever God you believe in, you expect other people to do it for you?
By the way, when you you use code words like "apes" and "animals" you are revealing your not-so obfuscated racism. Please stop. Christians are supposed to love everyone.
235301
10:45 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Craig: Do you also believe dinosaurs and people walked the earth at the same time? Help me out on the evidence for that theory.
Craig
6:42 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
For those people who are dumb as a box of rocks and who think the above is a racist remark.: Please re read the post. Nothing at all is racist there, as a matter of fact a close friend of mine who is black is the person who I borrowed the phrase from. In case you have no intelligence whatsoever from smoking rock, let me explain it to you. Current sex ed includes lesbian/ gay sex and alternative sex. Just a year ago we heard about the teacher who asked kids how they knew they were straight if they had not tried homesexual relations.
The comment about prohibiting God in schools, and the theory of evolution needs no explaination- even if you are a rock smoking switch hitter you should understand this.
Lyle Ruble
7:35 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Craig...I can't believe that you claim there is an "anything goes" curriculum. Schools do not cause or advocate sexual orientation. I don't see that the open acknowledgement of differences in sexual orientation is causing any social breakdown.
G-d never belonged in the schools in the first place. Constitutionally it is forbidden We are all a product of biological evolution. Are we apes, emphatically no! Do we share common ancestors, yes. We are animals and only through social community and cognition are we able to separate ourselves from our animal instincts. These are facts that you need to accept.
James R Hoffa
7:36 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Craig -
Hoffa understands your point and stands with you on this one! It doesn't even have to be about God, but rather just common sense moral and ethical behavior. After all, how many moral and ethical lessons were contained within the contents of the TV show “Leave It To Beaver,” and all without even mentioning God or religion. Traditional values, pure and simple!
M.S.
9:09 pm on Tuesday, November 1, 2011
@craig: why are you insinuating that all who have a different opinion are rock smoking immoral sexual deviants? If your view was reasonable
Craig
10:17 pm on Tuesday, November 1, 2011
@MS....if you have to ask that question there is no way I can explain the answer to you in a way you can comprehend.
Bren
6:20 pm on Monday, December 12, 2011
Craig, I have to ask you if sending children uninformed into a sophisticated world is the best way to equip them for success. I can't speak for anyone else, but I was never taught in school that we were descended from apes/animals--we learned that there were multiple approaches and learned about each.
As for behavior, parents are the primary influencers in a child's life. Teachers and schools provide education (although they become mentors and refuge for many at-risk children). It's the parents' job to teach children to be good Christians if that is their faith, and to respect all people, regardless of gender, ethnicity, disability and/or faith.
Craig
7:03 pm on Monday, December 12, 2011
@ Bren: I don't think my kid is uninformed while entering a sophisticated world- the only way to know that is wait 20 years and see what happens. She is in premed at UW-Madison, so it will be a while before I know if I did anything right.
As far as I know the curriculum only teaches evolution, creationism is not taught. You are correct that this is the parent's duty, as is teaching moral values. Regardless of faith, values are still an important lesson everyone should have before leaving the nest. I am not an advocate for school prayer, but I also do not believe in the freedom 'from' religion mentality that has become the norm.
Brian Dey
9:09 pm on Monday, December 12, 2011
Lyle- Then why is it okay that some schools have after school groups for gay/lesbian/transgender and are not allowed to have a prayer group?
Lyle Ruble
9:54 pm on Monday, December 12, 2011
@Brian Dey...Big difference between a prayer group and LGBT group. Last I looked, LGBT is not a religion and is secular only; no different than the chess club. Prayer groups violate the establishment clause.
Brian Dey
10:22 pm on Monday, December 12, 2011
Lyle- See, this is what is truly wrong with our society. The government is allowed to discriminate against religion, but not on sexual preference? No wonder our country is as messed up as it is. While you may be offended if I pray to God, but it's okay for our government to teach our children about sex.
James R Hoffa
12:16 am on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Why did everyone all of a sudden flock to such an old board - October 29th?
jbw
11:40 pm on Saturday, October 29, 2011
I don't understand any of this. It takes like five minutes to explain abstinence, birth control pills, and condoms. These are all common public knowledge and can certainly be picked up without taking a class. If you're 18 and still don't know what all of those things are then people are going to assume you're mentally disabled.
Do you waste money debating whether schools should let kids know that beer exists, too? Do you keep your kids in cages to prevent them seeing what's on the shelves at the supermarket and drug store, or what?
Man, you political idealogues are dumb as dirt. How about requiring that schools teach kids that they can start their own businesses instead of demanding "high-paying jobs" be handed to them by someone else?
Jrock
12:28 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
Well, if everyone started their own business, then there would be no one to work for said businesses, or cops, or teachers, or anything other than a service economy. Ironically, with no one to serve. Talk about socialism, jesus...You can't sell widgets, if everyone else sells widgets too.
Lyle Ruble
8:22 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
When I read about this proposed legislation several weeks back; I was amazed that someone would have the audacity to raise this argument in lieu of our job shortage situation. However, looking at the political reality and that the Republican state legislature is in a position of power and they aren't going to let the opportunity slide by to pass "pet" social legislation. Senator Lazich reminds me of the "Church Lady" character created by Dana Carvey of SNL fame. We don't need religious ideology in our public policy and statutes. This proposed legislation is clearly a view of a public official wanting to insert her Christian religious moral principles into legislation on everyone whether they share her perspective or not.
As someone who grew up during the late forties, fifties and sixties, when abstinence was the only option, unwanted teen pregnancy and the spread of STDs led society to reexamine attitudes and the reality of adolescent behavior and it was decided over the next twenty to thirty years that the factual teaching of sex education in the public schools provided the greatest benefit to society. One of the greatest changes came in redefining teen pregnancy and the spread of STDs as a public health issue and not a religious morality issue. It is a rational position to take given that our biological driven behavior is often in conflict with our social values. Adolescents are known to make impulse driven decisions and why should we put them at greater risk.
Cinda68
8:59 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
I guess I don't see what the big deal is, it is just going from a state-mandated sex ed program to a district controlled one. ???? But I suppose if we just took it at that then those that are looking for the 'them vs. us' argument or perpetuating the 'Republicans are evil' argument wouldn't have much to be mad about.
Lyle Ruble
9:56 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Cinda68...This issue shouldn't even be on the table at this time. A "special session" is for a specific purpose. If the legislature wants to take up the question in a future regular session, more power to them.
Dustin Block
11:53 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
It's state-mandated abstinence education, with local districts getting to decide if they teach birth control. Current law requires both, or a letter home to parents saying they're not teaching about birth control.
Cinda68
9:05 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
BTW, the Healthy Youth bill was passed in 2010, when unemployment was 9.7%. No outcries because that governor/legislature wasn't focusing on jobs then? Lyle, your comment that "I was amazed that someone would have the audacity to raise this argument in lieu of our job shortage situation" was one you made back in 2010, right?
Lyle Ruble
9:58 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Cinda58...I challenge some of your assertions. In the first place, Wisconsin unemployment has never been at the levels you are citing. That figure you quote reflects a national figure., The Healthy Youth Bill was not drafted during a special session and came out of the regular legislative session in 2010.
daFalls
9:52 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
Falls' schools, with an abstinence based Human Growth and Development curriculum, actually teach a slightly more conservative curriculum than most school districts. This is because they adhere to a state mandated process which includes community input. I have always felt it was a curriculum that suited the beliefs of our community. Also, research has shown that our kids are just a hair less promiscuous than other students nationwide. I think we should be allowed to continue with the current process and not be told by the state what must be taught.
Mr.Ed
10:02 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
--Lyle, you have a good final point; however try to remain objective in your thinking process. Its kind of like that "pet social legislation" passed by the in power democratic party commonly referred to as Obamacare. It works both ways.
--Craig is a "racist" because he used the word animal and ape?? He must not have gone to the mandatory diversity training class. We need a state law to force him to attend. Or maybe we can handle this best by discussing it on a local level? I think he could have said taken "morality" out of our schools instead of "god", but don't we need one to teach the other?
--Personally I would like to see mandatory sterilization of all children at birth; then when you are ready for a family, you could apply for a "child permit". If you can demonstrate the social and financial capacity to independently care for that child, a permit would be granted. (But I'm sure someone would then come up with a federal assistance program for that to.)
Since "child permits" will never happen, we need to do everything in our power to prevent unwanted and wanted underage teen pregnancy and avoid abortion being a primary form of birth control! Abstinence, the pill, condoms or whatever it takes.
Lyle Ruble
11:00 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
MustangSally... As someone who dabbles in social, ethical and moral philosophy; morality is not dependent on a G-d concept to exist. Only certain types of morality has a G-d as its founding principle. Judaic, Islamic and Christianity all are an outgrowth of G-d morality. However, it is proven over and over that one doesn't need to believe in a supreme being to be moral and ethical. Morals represent the governing rules of a society and may or may not be transferred into statutory forms.
Rather than call what you propose as mandatory sterilization, it would be better described as delayed fecundity. As the population soars, it is highly possible to enact what you are proposing. Whether this is a moral act or not can be debated. But, it is highly likely that delaying fecundity and requiring a child permit would have some very negative consequences, including social and biological engineering. Delaying fecundity may be acceptable but not child permits.
235301
10:50 am on Sunday, October 30, 2011
So we're looking at legislation to force the HPV vaccination? Why don't we just put a rider on that bill to also force all girls to be on Norplant? Seems logical to me. If our goal here is to reduce teenage pregnancy I would think Norplant would be a surefire way to make it happen.
James R Hoffa
1:22 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Lyle -
"... led society to reexamine attitudes and the reality of adolescent behavior and it was decided over the next twenty to thirty years that the factual teaching of sex education in the public schools provided the greatest benefit to society."
What your analysis fails to include is the FACT that since the 1950s, while the U.S. teen birthrate has indeed declined, the proportion of teen births that occur out of wedlock has increased almost exponentially. And very few of the teen births that occurred in wedlock, whether such marriage was resultant solely of the pregnancy or not, rarely cost the taxpayers/society anything to support, unlike those occurring out of wedlock, which more than likely are the ones that end up costing us all in the end. And AWD actually raises a valid point here in that members of certain racial persuasions tend to account for a disproportionately large make-up of the group that has unmarried teen pregnancies.
After all, if we are going to be looking at “the reality of adolescent behavior,” then we may as well look at the whole picture as opposed to just the pieces convenient to certain ideological platforms, right?
James R Hoffa
1:24 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
Personally, I don’t think that the Republican agenda here will effectively correct the situation. However, at least the Republicans are identifying the true root cause of the problem – a break down in traditional societal/family values as well as in the sanctity of certain institutions and the importance that society places upon such. On the other hand, the Democrats appear to just want to ignore this part of the reality or act like it just doesn’t exist or matter, which is also WRONG.
So, here’s the answer – we’ll teach the kids everything in public schools, but do in such a way that is sensitive to and encourages or at least attempts to preserve traditional societal/family values. Then, if you’re a teen that ends up getting pregnant out of wed-lock, you’re on your own as you’ve already been educated and warned – no government assistance / hand out for you. Only then will we truly see a turn around in this situation. And yes, a lot of people will probably suffer because of such changes, but you can’t keep on encouraging risky/stupid behavior by providing a safety net for such behavior.
James R Hoffa
1:24 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
Otherwise, where does it stop? After all, wasn’t Wall Street just exercising the exact same mindset, logic, and rational as an unmarried teen couple engaging in sexual intercourse? What’s so different about the lust for greed vs the lust for sex that you justify one over the other as being acceptable for overriding rational decision making? And yet, you don’t believe that Wall Street deserved the bail out it got. So why should stupid teens get a bail out then either?
Instead of merely accepting “the reality of adolescent behavior” in our policy decisions, shouldn’t we at least use those policy decisions to try and change or at least mold the societal reality and implications of such decisions in the hopes that “the reality” starts to change back to how it used to be? After all, what empowered teens to start engaging in sex around the 1950’s – the automobile and the independence and freedom away from the control/rule of their parents. Well, with privilege should also come responsibility – that’s what I was taught and the way in which I was raised by my parents. Today, we’re (parents) just handing out privileges without any congruent expectant responsibility. And they supposedly call this progressive thinking.
James R Hoffa
1:24 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
Guess what – it’s not working and it appears to actually be the root cause of the problem in this instance. We need to go back to instilling strong individual and societal values, stigmatizing against unmarried teen pregnancies. Only then do we truly begin to fix ‘the problem.’
Mr.Ed
2:25 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
--Great. I vote for Mr. Hoffa, along with "delaying fecundity" :) I should hand out condoms for trick or treat later today!
---Lyle, so how do you then instill morality and ethics in the increasing number of our youth population with absentee parents? (or should I say absentee parenting) We don't want them to act like 'animals' and 'apes' as Craig said.
(However, it is proven over and over that one doesn't need to believe in a supreme being to be moral and ethical.)
----Just wondering, why do you use g-d instead of god?
Lyle Ruble
3:42 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@MustangSally...Handing out condoms would be a good treat for certain numbers of youth.
Instilling morality in our youth is the responsibility of the parents, families and their local social environment. You can't legislate morality you can only reinforce it. We have to recognize that there is a significant difference between instinctual behavior and socially appropriate behavior. We also have to recognize that a number of people vary in their views of what appropriate behavior consists of.
I use the G-d symbol to indicate the supreme being instead of fully spelling it out; it is because of my Jewish religious tradition and the avoidance of pronouncing His name, which is forbidden. .
Say What?
8:09 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
What if the party in power was Islamic and decided that they wanted their political beliefs as the foundation for our youth? I am sure that we would be up in arms about that. But, when it is Christians, its ok. And, now a reply from AWD...
James R Hoffa
11:31 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Say What? -
I guess we have a delayed response from AWD! Bob McBride informed over on another board that AWD was busy "denying candy to trick or treaters from outside the neighborhood."
God-bless that Angry White Dude! Without him, Patch just wouldn't be the same, nor would there be as many comments deleted by the administrator :-)
Craig
9:11 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
Say What? You bring up a significant flaw with our society/schools. If a kid is Islamist or Buddist, the public school allows him to wear a head covering. If a kid has cancer and is bald, he is not allowed to wear a baseball cap.
The issue here is that those who are different are given rights that the majority are not. This isn't racial but more about sexual orientation and/or non christian types. There is far too much do-gooder influence without common sense applied.
Lyle Ruble
9:47 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
@Craig...the only significant flaw is your thinking. You are attributing reverse discrimination to be at the basis of all the problems. Simply inaccurate and no basis in reality.
Say What?
10:13 pm on Sunday, October 30, 2011
I heard about these kids with cancer and their baseball caps. I try to knock the hats off their heads whenever I get a chance. Where do they get off wearing hats?
Oh, was that not the point you were getting at? Me either.
Craig
8:59 pm on Monday, October 31, 2011
Lyle I do not think it is reverse discrimination- I consider it ignorance. Whatever you want to call it; it is not right.
James R Hoffa
12:35 am on Tuesday, November 1, 2011
@Craig -
Good point!
It's taking political correctness to the extreme and combining it with stupidity - pure and simple.
Steve
11:37 am on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Has anyone mentioned the Koch Brothers yet? Because I am SURE they have something to do with this.
patchreader 123
12:49 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
See the second post to the article........
Steve
1:19 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Nice, knew it wouldn't take long. Wonder if Bren has the "Koch Brothers" on a hot key.
greg
8:05 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Having Planned Parenthood put together a program to stop teen pregnancy is like having Phillip Morris teach kids how not to smoke. Or ( this is for Bren) The Koch Brothers how to use less toilet paper when you wipe your butt.
Lyle Ruble
9:34 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
@greg...Strange that you would use that analogy with Phillip Morris. They have in fact funded anti-smoking education. Planned Parenthood has put together the most comprehensive sex education program available. As a non-profit entity, Planned Parenthood has done more for the common good than than any number of other non-profits and government agencies. They have addressed a significant social issue with rationality and sensitivity. They have assisted in promoting public health and provided health services to any number of women who would otherwise be denied. To publicly deride the organization for providing a needed service, borders on the absurd.
For many, they provide the means to take personal responsibility for their own health and reproduction. For those of us who support personal responsibility, their very existence supports such responsibility.
James R Hoffa
12:13 am on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
@Lyle -
Planned Parenthood is all fine and dandy and can do whatever they want so long as they 1) operate within the confines of the law and regulatory regime applicable to their organization/operations, and 2) aren't being funded by taxpayers.
Lyle Ruble
5:56 am on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
@JRH...Planned Parenthood strictly operates within the limits of the law. In addition, the public funding they have received is for privatized services. Public funding has not been used for pregnancy termination, that is through private donation only.
Jaime Sommers
8:41 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Planned Parenthood is excellent at education to prevent pregnancy. To think otherwise is to be greatly misinformed. That's their entire purpose. The campaign that says that PP promotes abortion primarily is purely irresponsible rhetoric. Their primary concern is prevention of pregnancy and disease and they are good at it. So, let's see how we are doing: Pregnant 6th and 7th graders. Abstinence Education. TJMS. Not-so-good? I think the state should mandate FAR MORE sex ed than it has to include the emotional/social aspects of choices and really go through scenarios with kids in small confidential groups. Status Quo is not keeping kids from having sex and getting pregnant and transferring disease, so argue all you want, but the status quo is leading to more unplanned babies, unplanned illness, and overall greater cost to society and the welfar program. Yet, anyone SAYING it should be taught in the home is useful, in some way seems to have a reality deficit. If you feel that, send your kid to parochial school, keep them in the basement, your choice, but let the rest of the kids learn about the real world as much as possible. Again, 6th and 7th graders pregnant, yet absitence is useful and effective when practiced? How do you know they didn't "try" to practice it? Seriously.... get real.
Bob McBride
9:23 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Granted, it's been a long time since, but I hardly think a discussion of the "emotional/social aspects of choices and really go(ing) through scenarios" in 6th and 7th grade would have registered with me or anyone else I knew (and, btw, even though it was a zillion years ago I do remember an elective sex ed class offered outside of regular school hours that did, in fact, include some of that, to no particular avail). Even if it had, by the time I was 14-16 anything short of telling me it was going to fall off wasn't about to rein in 24 months of rutting season urges. And I was not alone. The girls weren't much better. We all had a pretty good idea what the consequences were - to say it didn't really register, aside from shoplifting some protection, was an understatement.
If you want to "get real", try putting yourself back in those days, think about what you were thinking about and how you reacted to anything of that nature presented to you by a teacher or parent. Eyes rolled then and now. Frankly you'd be better off doing what you can to scare the bejesus out of them at that age until they hit about 17-18, at which point acting responsibly might once again start to trump the hormonal urges to a degree.
The reason we weren't doing it in 6th and 7th grade back then was because a good number of us had no idea what "it" was. Had we been faced with simulated versions of it on TV and the real thing on the internet like now, we probably would have.
Lyle Ruble
10:00 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
@Bob McBride...I got a kick out of your description of the White Fish Bay rut. Fortunately, things have changed and I deal with a lot of adolescents who have are in the middle of taking their health classes or have recently completed it. They seem to be much more informed and pretty matter of fact about the experience. However, that doesn't change the fact they are still in full rut, but I don't worry that they will dealing with unwanted pregnancies or becoming an STD cesspool. Some things the left has done is actually working and promoting a better society.
Bob McBride
10:22 pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Lyle, I think one thing we need to admit here is that, just as we were pretty good at it in our day, kids today are perfectly capable of telling us what we want to hear and, at the next opportunity to contradict themselves, will do so. If you're not worried about it, you should be. That being said, there's really nothing you can do about it.
Kids will be kids, they'll continue to snow their parents and others and succumb to temptation. There's a wealth of information we have no control over that's readily available to kids today that wasn't in the past, so thinking we actually can influence what they think to the degree we could when we DID have better control over that information is probably wishful thinking.
I will say that "back in the day" as one moved southward from Whitefish Bay, the percentage of agreeable female companions increased so that by the time one reached the "East Side", the percentage who were intimidatingly knowledgable and aggressively active was quite high. Therefore I'm not sure I agree with you regarding the relative value of what the left may have brought to the equation. I might, however if I was 15 again.
greg
6:17 am on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Lyle Yes you are right Phillips Morris Has a good program on anti smoking That’s DO NOT SMOKE I believe That’s the way they yell it at the kids, not hey you’re going to smoke so her are light cigs, Miller has a great do not drive drunk ads, not, do not drive a little drunk Kids they smoke, drink and have sex, why is it in school we teach that only one has a safe way to do it?
Lyle Ruble
6:35 am on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
@reg...The sex ed classes do teach abstinence only as well as safe sex. Parents, under the current law can opt out of their children attending sex ed classes. Don't smoke and don't drink campaigns have only one simply message. Sex ed has an expended message to cover a wider contingency of human adolescent behavior. It's time to begin living in the 21st century and not the world of the 1950s middle class white America.
greg
10:48 am on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Please, all that is just to make you feel better about having your side teach things that a 6th grader has no business knowing ,and leave out the white thing I’ll take the unwed birth rate of the 1950’s white or black, the racism of low expectations is part of the problem.
Lyle Ruble
11:00 am on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
@greg...I don't know about your district, but the Milwaukee North Shore districts wait until the students are in the 9th grade. There may be exceptions, but the health classes are given in the 9th grade.
Out of wedlock births were fewer in number during the 1950s and 1960s primarily that many couples participated in what was called a "shotgun wedding". As public attitudes have changed about the questions of legitimacy and the social pejorative label of "bastard", a child born out of wedlock subsequently lost their illegitimate label, creating equality at birth. I really don't think we want to return to those days when unwanted pregnant girls disappear while pregnant or participated in back alley abortions. All of those things went on during the "golden age" of sexual abstinence. It is a out sight, out of mind mentality.
kbb
12:53 pm on Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Truce. Let's let schools teach science, including how human bodies work. Let's let churches teach whatever mythology they deem appropriate.
BTW, not to spoil a good conservative talking point, but the only thing preventing your kid from praying or joining a student prayer group in his public school is the fact that he doesn't want to. The LAW allows him to pray in school anytime he wishes, aloud if he so chooses, and in a group of other students if such a group desires to do so. The law simply forbids the school from instituting its own "prayer" regimen, which is good because even the different Christian cults can't agree on theology.